Surviving High School Struggles: A Teenage Journey
The journey through high school struggles, regrets, and the path forward.
Let me introduce myself:
I’m a student who just finished 12th grade. Instead of jumping into college, I decided to take
a year “to focus on myself” – coding, blogging, learning guitar, and prepping for the future. Sounds
ambitious, right?
Sound familiar? Whether you’re a gap-year student like me, a college freshman, or just trying to balance studies and hobbies, procrastination doesn’t discriminate. But here’s what changed everything: tiny habits. Not grand resolutions, but small, laughably easy steps. Let me show you how I went from “I’ll fix my life tomorrow” to “Okay, let’s just try this for 2 minutes.”
(Spoiler: Because I’m lazy and impatient.)
Everything changed when I discovered the power
of tiny habits—small, laughably simple steps that transformed my “tomorrow” into an “okay, let’s try
this for 2 minutes.” Big goals like “Learn Java!” or “Write a viral blog!” were paralyzing. In
contrast, tiny habits served as cheat codes for productivity. Consider these key ideas:
My First Tiny Habit:
I began by telling myself, “After breakfast, write one sentence for my blog.” This simple
commitment was easy to stick with. Some days, that one sentence grew into a paragraph; on others, I
managed only to open the document. Either way, it was progress. This tiny habit helped me overcome
the inertia of perfectionism and build consistency in my writing
I always dreamed of conquering coding challenges, but my journey took a practical twist. Instead of the classic "Hello World" routine, I decided to tackle something real: creating a GitHub repository and uploading my entire website there. I started with a tiny habit—spending just 5 minutes after lunch to push a few lines of code or commit a small update. Some days, I fixed a few bugs or tweaked a line of code; other days, I simply committed a placeholder file. Over time, those small steps added up. Before I knew it, I had a fully functional GitHub repo showcasing my website. It was a small victory that made all the late nights and debugging sessions totally worth it.
Blogging used to be a battle of overthinking and indecision. I would stare at a blank screen,
paralyzed by the fear of not being good enough. Then I adopted this simple habit: “Jot down
one idea while sipping chai.” This tiny step quickly snowballed into a list of over 50 blog
topics, eight of which I’ve already published. It was a clear reminder that consistent small
actions eventually lead to significant progress.
Here’s my no-judgment guide for students drowning in deadlines, hobbies, or existential crises:
Step 1: Attach Habits to Existing Routines:
Integrate tiny habits with your current daily tasks. For example, code for 5 minutes after brushing
your teeth or write one sentence after dinner. This method leverages what you’re already doing,
making it easier to adopt new behaviors.
Example:
Why It Works: You’re already doing these things. Piggybacking habits feels natural.
Step 2: Make It Stupidly Easy:
Instead of setting daunting goals like “Learn Python in a month,” opt for a manageable step such as
“Watch one coding tutorial (and skip the rest).” Apply the “Non-Zero Day” rule: if you did
something, no matter how small, you’re winning.
Step 3: Celebrate Like a Student
(Acknowledge your victories, no matter how minor. Celebrating these little successes keeps you motivated and reinforces your new habits.)
I’m still figuring things out. Last week, I alphabetized my spice rack instead of working. But tiny habits taught me:
Pick ONE tiny habit – any habit:
Key thing is that "do something, even if it's small it will be counted"
You don’t need a 5 AM routine, a bullet journal, or a perfect GPA. Just be the student who tries one
tiny thing today, all you need is Consistency. And if you fail? Try again tomorrow. I’ll be
there too – probably eating cereal
for dinner, but trying.
(Funfact: It took me 3 days to complete this blog 😊! Small step at a time YK.)